Women are sensitive creatures, even if they’re strong and independent. Sometimes they just experience unnecessary guilt for everything they say, do, and even feel. It often happens because of the pressure from the outside: “you need children,” “your hobby is ridiculous,” “you dress like a guy,” and thousands of other things. Yet you shouldn’t apologize for these.
Dedilat has made up a list of 15 things no woman should feel guilty for. It’s time to change your attitude toward yourself for the better! cool stuff, cool stuff
1. For saying “no”
Women often feel guilty for saying “no.” It’s often easier to say “yes,” no matter what the result may be. This might surprise you, but you shouldn’t apologize for that. Yes, I know you feel awful for refusing to help a friend or telling a guy you don’t want to date him.
But think of you first; there’s probably a reason why you need to refuse. No matter how small it is — if you don’t feel like saying “yes,” no one has the right to force you.
2. For liking “manly” or “girly” things
“Honey, it’s time to find a more appropriate hobby, you’re a lady!” How often have you heard something like this? Who on Earth told you that you cannot be an auto mechanic if you’re a woman? cool stuff, cool stuff
Remember that it’s your life, and it’s you who decides what you want. There’s no reason why you can’t like bikes instead of knitting; or knitting instead of bikes. Hey, we live in the 21st century, after all! cool stuff, cool stuff